I Don’t Need You
Last night while chatting with a guy I’ve known for years he started to try and pressure me into meeting him. It was already 1:30 am, I had just had my shower and was ready to go to sleep. While I would ordinarily love to go out and meet him and spend time with him, I really had no interest in getting together for a quickie, which is all he was offering and he’s been told in the past that I want a friend for companionship to do things with, not just a sex partner.
During the course of this conversation, he made the comment that “I Need Him” — instantly the warning bells of a control freak went off in my head. As soon as he said this I said to him “Oh Really?” and what on earth do you think I need you for? He truly must have forgotten who he was talking to. Of course, as soon as I asked the question, he said never mind and made a comment about the toys we women love – LOL – YUP we women don’t NEED you for that – we may want you, but we don’t ever need you – at least this woman doesn’t. Needless to say he is one man I won’t be meeting again in the future even though in the past we enjoyed going out and having a few drinks together and chatting.
Since becoming totally single again, I’ve found that most men seem to think that they should just jump right into bed with you. Whatever happened to wining and dining and getting to know each other? Maybe its just me but I feel i can find sex anywhere – its the friendship and companionship that I desire most and seems to be the most elusive and if I don’t have things on my terms then it just isn’t gonna happen. Does that make me selfish? If so, so be it. I’ll happily stay selfish until I meet the right person that I wish to share myself completely with again and it will be on my terms.
March 27th, 2010 at 11:53 pm
You go, girl!